in long term relationships the build up is sometimes more important than the act. Leave her sexy notes, let her know from time to time how sexy you think she is. bring her flowers for no reason. then when youyou have an evening planned for her, leave a note on her pillow or purse telling her how you cant wait to have her..during the day, a text message or email confirming same.
women are more emotionally and mentally stimulated than we are, the more you let her know how sexy you find her, the more she is going to show you how right you are!MARRIAGE ADVICE HOW DO I TURN-IT UP?
There are millions of answers, but like the others said, you need to find out what turns her on. Sometimes it's hard to come right out and say what turns us on if we are not used to talking about it.
You might get a book or a game or a sex improvement video series to get the communication going.
Romance does turn up the heat for most women because it makes them feel like the special object of your attention. And this part should be easy for you to accomplish, with stuff like flowers, dates, poetry, candles, massage, bubble baths.
A new location is always fun, whether it's a hotel room, a parked car or the laundry room.
And remember, if she says ';yes, that feels good'; that does not mean do it harder and faster! (Commons mistake men make)
this is where you have to know your wife... my husband knows that all he needs to do it talk like a geek....use big technology words....or let me watch him working on eletronics..taking them apart and fixing them...obviously this is going to work for all girls....lol
my point is, he knows the things that he does that attract me..... so, what attracts your girl? does she like? you working on cars, or fixing things? doing heavy yard work? construction type work? figure it out...and while your doing it... flirt with her. :o)
good luck!
Ask her what her fantasies are and what turns her on the most. Then, make a ';date'; to show her you really want to spice things up. Take her to a hotel, nice dinner, movies, park, theater, drive-in, baseball game, sex shop, camping.....ANYTHING that she wants. Listen to her, pay attention to her and she will let you know what makes her toes curl :)
Since none of us can tell you what SHE likes, you'll have to discuss it with her. Be patient, give her the freedom to be honest. For most women, foreplay begins before bedtime. It starts when the husband or wife is kind and treats their spouse with love and respect. Now that's a turn on!
Out of nowhere make her feel irresistable! focus everything on her tease her and warm her up before you get down to business. Find out how she likes it and spoil her until she can't handle anymore
remember those activities that got her hot before the wedding. flower petals on sheets, long slow foreplay, hot oil rub whatever
Clean the whole house, cook her dinner, and let her have the remote. I promise sex will be lots better.
Put some muscle on your body.
being spontaneous
get the whipping cream can out, put it all over her body
shave yourself - don't tell her - what a surprise - you will like the feeling too
ask her what she wants. she's the only one who will know.
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