Marriage breakdown, advice needed.?

i have been in a marriage breakdown where my wife has been violent to me. we got married in india in august 2005. she was granted a visa to enter the uk on a spouse visa, which expires in august 2008. now that she has entered the uk, she now thinks has a permanent right of stay in the uk. at the time of the marriage i was unaware that she had a boyfriend. she has been extremely difficult to deal with and has been trying relentlessly to annoy me into divorcing her, so that she can call hre boyfriend over. now i need ur help here. how do i notify the home office about the above problem.





On another occasion I was driving her to work, whilst she was the passenger, with out warning she started to tug on the steering wheel so that I would crash my car!





seconfd occasion, i was driving at 80mph, and she pulled the steering wheel to the left lane, which she almost caused an accident!


any ideas how i should write it out the letter out, help please!Marriage breakdown, advice needed.?
Sounds like she's crazy, maybe you should think twice about who you bring into the UK.Marriage breakdown, advice needed.?
the best revenge you can get on someone who steels your wife is let him keep her
If it expires in aug 2008 and you are in the middle of a divorce wouldnt they automatically ask her to leave the country as she will not be anyones spouse? I suggest you contact the immigration department and tell them that someone married you on false pretenses only to gain access to the country. Sounds like u have been living a nightmare...good luck.
get legal advice immediately, your solicitor can advise you how to contact the home office.





Start writing down all the incidents that have occured and any more that happen.





If she is violent, abusive or trys to cause accidents like that again call the police, you have as much right as a woman when it comes to abuse.
Wow, run away!


Here in the states we would just have to report it to the department of immigration, and they would take care of the rest, as long as there aren't any children involved.





Good luck
She is trying to kill you! Why have you not left her??? You need to leave her immediately before she succeeds. You also need to report her to the police and call immigration. As well as being a victim of attempted murder you are also a victim of domestic violence. Just because you are a man, it doesnt make it any less a crime. There's no way immigration will renew her visa if her spouse has left her and she has serious criminal charges against her. Stay safe and good luck!
talk to immigration, tell them what shes like, what shes done and if you have to tell them that she admitted she only married you for a passport because she sounds like a evil woman (no offence intended) and be glad you learned what she was like.


just word the letter in complete honesty and with anywords that seem right, thats the best way.





i hope you have better luck in the future and good luck!!!!
Run away to Afganistan!!! or alternatively kill him
well, in most countries, people drive on the left side of the car. she thought she was supposed to be driving, since she sat on the left seat. maybe she was just a bit confused.
You have to get the crazy woman out of your life man! You're gonna end up hurt or dead! You conduct your letter with all the issues you've had, that you are filing for divorce and this is the problem....etc. I feel for you b/c I know you love her, but enough is enough. She cannot continue to do this to you. If she pulls things like this again to you in the car, refuse to take her to work. Don't let her in your vehicle, for fear of you losing your own life!
She sounds like a freaking retard... dump her !!! She could care less about you....and obviously would rather see you dead.
Disable her airbag sabotage her belt and really hit the gas next time she tries that.
Well in theory you would have to sign her settlement form to say that you are still married for her to remain in uk but she could easily forge that i guess. I would go to your solicitor and start divorce proceedings or get a seperation notice immediately then write to the immigration office with all her details and explain the situation. I would also try and keep a diary of the abuse or get a restraining order for your own protection incase she tries to turn it around. Good luck.
You need to divorce her immediately! do not wait for her to


kill or hurt you to get out of it! You'll be a fool! Indians are


very ethnic in their way of life! and it was probably an arranged issue, usually they do that from the day their


children are born, to preserve the family tree, also the religion


makes this a requirement, maybe she did'nt tell you for


many reasons, but now she want to go, LET HER GO! for


safety! send her back to India, buy her a ticket to ride. Quick!
Bone chance
I would elaborate mostly on the bad but make points in your letter that you have tried daily to work on your marrige but things seem to be getting worse!!!! Heads up in divorce court...... You cannot leave a spouse out..... She is entlitled to half of everything that you two have accumilated in the past 3 years sucks but its the law unless you can prove adultery!!!! Good luck!!!!
what a mess!!shes crazy.Let her go!!!let her find her own way to die...