What is your best advice on the affair inside marriage?

im married with 2 beautiful kids. my husband is not here and what i do is that, i go out clubbing bcoz am so boring. So this time, i get to meet with my ex. One of them told me to leave my husband to go to him and he can look after my kids while the other one have no idea at all that im married. And also my feelings for my husband is getting worse now since we are not seeing each other for more than one year now but still keep in touch through email. But i love him very much and i know that no one can replace him. He's a good father and a good husband. We both working and busy. I really miss him a lot every single day.What is your best advice on the affair inside marriage?
Where is your husband???? Is he out clubbing or is he away working to support his family???????? Going out and hooking up with people that don't know you are married is not fair to your husband OR to the people you are getting involved with. Believe it or not there are guys out there that do respect the bond of marriage and would be very upset to find out that they had messed with another man's wife. You need to take a long hard look at yourself and decide what is more important to you.... your family and husband or this social life that you have put yourself into.





Seriously....Grow Up!!!What is your best advice on the affair inside marriage?
You have two children at home and you go out clubbing because you are bored? And you are having extramarital sexual affairs, but really love your husband and ';miss him a lot every single day';? You make me sick.
First of all...when you decide to marry someone you have to put aside all of your childish ways. You never did that obvioulsy. And if your REALLY love someone your not going to go out of your marrige...thats just WRONG! If you really loved your husband you wouldn't be bored with your relationship in the first place!!! Tell him what you have done, get a life...this is all going to come back on you one day.
well be honest with yourself..if you truely love your husband..then STOP what your doing with your ex..that is NOT fair and it is not honest..there is NO excuse!!..However if you dont love your husband then divorce him...but dont cheat..cheating is worth than death in my opinion....just talk to your husband and try and make time to see him!!
Marriage is hard work, commitment, communication, trust, faithfulness, laughter, friendship, %26amp; a life time of ups %26amp; downs. You said he's a good father %26amp; a good husband. I think you are lucky that you have a man that loves you so much.
If you are committed to your marriage, talk to your husband. Tell him that you're lonely, and work out some way that you can see one another. And stop going to clubs where you run into people who tell you to leave your husband -- you don't need that kind of peer pressure right now!





I'm not saying that you shouldn't go out and have fun, but you need to make sure that it doesn't endanger your marriage, if you're determined to stay married.
Youre kinda stupid. You wouldn't ask if you realllllly loved him.
the beast advice is don't do it............and if you do, don't get caught
You seriously need to avoid all men like the PLAGUE until you get yourself together. YOU don't even know what you want. Chill for a while. Get to know yourself. Spend some time alone and with your children. But stop playing around with fire, and people's hearts until you can get your head on straight enough to know what you want, or you'll just be making more heartache and drama for yourself.
I think that you should let your husband know what is going on. You are misleading him.


It is sad, that when a woman does have a good man, then he is not enough.


You have him believing that it is okay for him to be gone working, and you are taking care of the kids so that you all will have a better life together.





And why with your ex? I am sure he did you wrong and you all are not together for a reason.





I think that your husband will soon find out how wrong you really are, and then you will realize that all of that clubbing, and men are not the way to go. You are suppose to be a wife and a mother for goodness sake.





And then you say you are bored, go to school, exercise, spend time with your children, or family. They are a entire list of options that you can do rather than hang out with an ex, that obviously doesn't have any morals like yourself.





Grow Up and remember Karma is a -----!!