U have to learn to let go and move foward with ur life. There is better out there who will be a faithful man and a good husband don't cheat ur self out of this u deserve way better.I need some love advice about a marriage almost gone!!!!!!!!!!?
You didn't say whether or not you attended some counseling. Ask him to attended some sessions with you. If he does, you need to give it some time to work on the issues. He is NOT cheating on you just to hurt you. He has other issues. If he chooses not to attend, then you attend. You need to understand some things and work through others. After some counseling, reach out to a close relative of his that you can trust. Set up an intervention with family members on both sides that you trust. The meeting should not last more than an hour. You should express to him the imprtance of your family, how you love him and the hurt you are experiencing. You are to give him an ultimative to attend counseling or you will seek an attorney. This must be done only in an intervention set up. This will help you as well. Good luck.
I'd say both of you need to get into counseling, hon. You two have put 5 children on this planet, who never asked to be born!!!!!! He needs to quit betraying you, step to the plate, and be a father, and a husband.
He's still a baby... hon, you don't have 5 children, you have 6!!!!. And he won't change without help.
And there is no way you want a life alone raising 5 kids as a single parent.... hon, the worst life there is, is being a single parent.
Your first mistake was having children with this guy. Your second will be to continue in this marriage without help to get it square and right, and faithful, and loving, and supportive. You have none of those with a betrayer.
Get this jerk by the ear, and get the two of you into counseling.
And don't say you can't afford it. Sweetie, you have no marriage without it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
girl! go get your hair done and start getting a life with your girl friends. you have been together so long and you have been giving him nothing but love and he couldnt give you anything back and was out giving it to someone else? move on with it and forget about it. I know its hard and you still love him but you neet to look at the future and not the past, otherwise you will never move on. i just hope you dont think you deserved any of it and want to still be with him. start going out for drinks with your girls and getting out more!
well..he has cheated on you and lied to you. I know you say you love him, but you should move on with your life, you only have one. He is not respecting you and you are not setting good examples for your beautiful children! I know it's hard when you love someone sooooo much that you can't even stand the thought of being without him, trust me I have been there and done that. But it's so not worth the disrespect he is giving you. Stand up for yourself and make that move to better yourself!
You love you, butyou want to move on ?? First of all, you need to decide what you want to do - do you want to go or stay? You surely have trust problems since he lied and cheated on you - What is there left? Will love keep you together? It has for 8 years, but how much longer can you live in this? That's up to you - no one here can tell you to stay or go. That is your decision.
Sometimes love hurts, especially when you love someone more than they love you! Your first problem may've been the 5 years y'all spent together without commitment, then he just not into family life with you now, so take leave, and show him you can do it without him. He may appreciate you more once he misses you! Your life will never be the same.
i am in the exact situation you are with my wife, except she didnt cheat, but i will do anything to get her back, so if you find the answer please share it with me. thank you. Dan
bring him into marriage counseling. you'll see how fast your therapist empowers your self esteem to get you outta there.
once a cheater always a cheater. he'll change when you see pigs fly. be smart and move on. this man doesn't repect you or your kids from what i just read.
Just take it day by day.
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