Sunday, December 27, 2009

I JUST GOT MARRIED ANY ADVICE ON KEEPING MY MARRIAGE HAPPY?

Communication, Communication, Communication %26amp; sexI JUST GOT MARRIED ANY ADVICE ON KEEPING MY MARRIAGE HAPPY?
Mix things up; like do not get stuck in a boring routine. Always be honest with each other, and trust each other. :)


That's my own advice, but below is the Ten Biblical Rules for a Healthy Marriage.





1.Never bring up mistakes of the past.


Stop criticizing others or it will come back on you. If you forgive others, you will be forgiven (Luke 6:37).





2.Neglect the whole world rather than each other.


And how do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul in the process? (Mark 8:36)





3.Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.


And don't sin by letting anger gain control over you. Don't let the sun go down while you are still angry (Ephesians 4:26).





4.At least once a day, try to say something complimentary to your spouse.


Gentle words bring life and health; a deceitful tongue crushes the spirit (Proverbs 15:4).





5.Never meet without an affectionate welcome.


Kiss me again and again, your love is sweeter than wine (Song of Solomon 1:2).





6.';For richer or poorer'; - rejoice in every moment that God has given you together.


A bowl of soup with someone you love is better than steak with someone you hate (Proverbs 15:17).





7.If you have a choice between making yourself or your mate look good, choose your mate.


Do not withhold good from those who deserve it when it's in your power to help them (Proverbs 3:27).





8.If they're breathing, your mate will eventually offend you. Learn to forgive.


I am warning you, if another believer sins, rebuke him; then if he repents, forgive him. Even if he wrongs you seven times a day and each time turns again and asks forgiveness, forgive him (Luke 17:3,4).





9.Don't use faith, the Bible, or God as a hammer.


God did not send His Son into the world to condemn it, but to save it (John 3:17).





10.Let love be your guidepost.


Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. Love does not demand its own way. Love is not irritable and it keeps no record of when it has been wronged (1 Cor. 13:4,5).





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http://www.pier55.com/Lifestyle/Happy-Ma鈥?/a>I JUST GOT MARRIED ANY ADVICE ON KEEPING MY MARRIAGE HAPPY?
What many people don't understand is that sooner or later the new wears off and then it's just life. No two people in this world can live together and never have a argument, you will have trouble from time to time, but that does not mean somethings wrong, again it's just life. A happy marriage takes work from both the husband and wife, and sometimes it's not easy, but it can work. My wife and I have been happily married for 10yrs and still going strong, and a big key to a happy marriage is very good communication and sometimes patience.


I wish you well.
Congratulations. I hope someday I will find someone worthy of marriage. I envy you right now hon...and my advice to you is this. Keep God in your lives and never go to bed angry. Also, little suprises are great. And listen to eachother. Talk talk talk. There is never anything to NOT talk about.
sit down and talk about what you and your partner wants in your future. Don't let little arguments get you down, and talk everything out instead of fighting. I hope this helped a little.


Congrats on your marriage!
Communication, and respect...will get you a LONG way in marriage.





It's nice to keep up the small things as well...





ENJOY!
Learn to talk, to fight and to make love as a couple and not just in reaction to one persons needs or feelings.
For one thing, keep the lines of communication open.
Be a good wife at all times. Keep good communication and ALWAYS make your husband a priority, even when you have kids.

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