I need some advice about my marriage?

i am 22 years old. i have been married almost 1 year. he is a good loving husband but i met someone else who i care about very much. i am stuck between the two and don't know what to do. i care for my husband but i cannot stop thinking about the other guy. please help me!I need some advice about my marriage?
That's pretty simple. YOUR MARRIED sister!





Unless you leave your husband stop thinking about the other man.I need some advice about my marriage?
you should try to identify exactly what it is about the other guy that makes you soo interested. Is he more spontaneous? is he funnier? is he more into deep conversations? is he into something more academic? Is he dangerous? is it the excitement of getting caught?


Dont say nothing because the only reason that people start to have wandering eyes is to fill a void in their current relationship





Once you figure out what it is then you need to try and re-create it in your world, weather it is getting your husband involved in the same activity or simply finding a way to fill the gap on your own.


The only other issue could be that you just got married to younge, tied yourself down when you need to be out exploring and socializing.


Get out and get involved in some new hobbies/activities.





Create a bit of excitement in your life and you should find the attraction of straying from your marrige decrease
You don't just automatically care about someone you meet - not to the extent that you are implying anyways... you clearly have allowed yourself to stray from your marriage - whether it be physically, emotionally, mentally etc.... divorce sounds like the only option at this point - especially since you made no comments about how you want to make it work, you love your husband, you feel bad....





Cut your husband loose - he deserves better.
i'm not married, i'm not eving seeing anyone currently. but i know that marrige takes alot of work, and if you do work the rewards will be sweet. my parents were married for seventeen years untill my dad went back to school. thats when he met marie, she was married too. at the end of my dad's schooling he went on european vacation with her, while my mom, little brother, and i stayed home. he missed my fifteenth birthday. when he got back he informed my mom (who was always faithful) he hadn't loved her for eight years now and he wanted a divorce. i'm here to tell you cheating is never acceptable, its disgrceful. i hope you do the right thing, for your husband and for any kids you might one day have.
If your husband is a good loving husband, then why are you worried about the other man? You can only be married to one husband. The same goes for the man. He can only be married to one woman. Are you trying to commit adultery?
Cut off contact with the other guy, he will fade from your memory. Concentrate on your marriage. You say that your husband is a good, loving man-don't let that go. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
Sorry to say but no one here can help you. You shouldn't be in this situation to begin with, you should be loyal to your husband. Time to grow up sweetie, what your doing is not fair to your husband!!!
stick with your hubby you went all the way to marry him for a reason and nobody else dont be stupit like others and make the biggest mess of your life
KARMA is a *****!