Can a muslim male embark on a second marriage to a muslim female without divorcing or consent of the first wife who is Christian?
Would the second islamic marriage be haram in Islam and the eyes of Allah?Islamic second marriage advice?
Thank GOD, I married a good man who wont marry a second wife. What happend to love? Does no one feel love anymore, just lust!
Islamic second marriage advice?
You can marry the second time, you don't need your first wife's permission. But you have to show kindness and care toward your first wife. You have to inform her of your decision to marry, you have to prepare her mentally for such an even. Islam allows second marriage, but it does say that the first wife has to be informed and prepared for it. But there are some requirements of second marriage, if they are not something you think you can fulfil than you shouldn't have a second marriage. One is that you will be able to treat both wives equally, as in you don't start favouring one over the other, you will support both wives equally (emotionally, physically, financially). Another issue you need to think about is, would this break a family structure? Meaning if you have a wife, you have kids and everything is fine, than would marrying a second woman result in the breakage of the family structure, would it effect your first wife and kids in a negative effect. And if so, than second marriage is not recommended.
Hope this helped.
Bismillahi Rahmani Rahim - In the Name of Allah, the Beneficent, the Merciful
A Muslim man does not require the permission of his first wife before he marries again. However, he should consider his reason for wanting to marry another and should consider the natural jealousy of his wife. If the first wife does not want to be part of a polygynous marriage, she has the right to ask for a divorce.
I would ask, what is the reason the husband wants to marry again? If he is marrying a second because he has issues with the first, this is a recipe for disaster. Bringing another person into a troubled marriage will only cause more problems. Also, if they are in a non-Muslim country, then typically polygyny is not allowed and the first wife can cause big problems for him if she chooses.
How religious is the man? If he married a non-Muslim in the first place, it may be that he was not terribly religious before. Is he practicing his Islam correctly? Has he encouraged his Christian wife to learn about Islam and has he served as a good, loving example of Islam? Does he know his responsibilities in dividing his time and does the wife know? Does the second wife-to-be know about the first wife? This is a complex issue and there are many opportunities for it to end badly.
I would suggest that the couple get good religious counseling from someone who knows Islam and can point out all the difficulties that such a situation will entail. Without details I don't know if a particular situation is good or bad, but just in general I would say that it probably would not end well. And Allah knows best.
Fi Aman Allah,
Nancy Umm Abdel Hamid
You could marry a second wife, if you feel that Allah commanded you to do it, but you would have to come up with some REALLY good excuse about why you couldn't tell your first wife because if you are going to split your time equally between them, there needs to be some COMMUNICATION going on, man.
Also think about what kind of Muslim woman is going to flirt with a married man and entice him to look at her. So what if your first wife is Christian. Jesus was a Muslim. Work on your marriage that you have. Is your Christian wife going around flirting with other men? If not, she's superior to the ';muslim.';
2nd marriage is not haram unless he cannot treat/care for the 2 equally. he doesnt need her consent because it is his right to him from Allah. if the christian doesnt like it she can ask him for divorce.
No divorce or consent is needed. It does not change if the wife is christian or not. But the first wife should be informed.
Its HIGHLY reccommended that he inform the first wife, whether she is Christian or not.
He must have the consent of his first wife. He may only take up another wife if he can treat them equally too.
He MUST have the consent of his first wife.
If you don't think it would be wrong then why do you have that bad feeling in your gut?
avery thing we do is 4the sake of Allah tala ...
so why do u want a second wife???
4sex!!! thats wrong...
sex is not averything...
LOVE IS AVERY THING
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