If you could give someone one piece of advice about marriage what would it be?

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Trust me; the two of you will grow very old together.If you could give someone one piece of advice about marriage what would it be?
Communicate.





Talk about things before you get married. Know where your partner stands on certain issues. Know their believes.





Don't hold things in and talk about them before they become a huge problem. Let each other know how you're feeling and don't hid things hoping they'll go away or get better.





This is my advice because at first it was hard for me to talk to my husband and he was upset by my way of dealing with conflict. By him communicating that with me it helped me gather the courage to speak my feelings. (I was raised with the ';go to your room'; complex and so I worked it out by going over and over things by myself.)





Now we have a great relationship and can really be there for each other. Communication is key plus it makes you feel better.





Good luck!If you could give someone one piece of advice about marriage what would it be?
I think the best advice i can give you is to always treat your man like a man, it has worked for me, The last thing your man wants to do when he gets home is clean or cook, be the woman in the relationship and have stay beautiful! Just keep doing the things you are doing now and dont change after you are married.
Respect your spouse as a separate person with his/her own rights.


Always be aware of how you look to your spouse in the way you behave during disagreements.


Take responsibility for your own mistakes and do all you can to make amends.


Make the relationship a priority over anything or anyone within reason.


Listen to your spouse and show you care.
During your first year of marriage, put a penny in a jar every time you have sex. In the second year take a penny out every time you have sex. The third year put one in each time, and continue this pattern. You will never have an empty jar.
Marriage isn't a 50/50 relationship. At minimum in it 100/100. Both people must give 100% of themselves and put everything they have into making it work. You both have to want for the marriage to work. It's takes two. Not 1.5.
I got married about two months ago and my father-in-laws advice for my new hubby? 'your wife is always right, and you're always wrong, always' He's been married to the same woman (my husbands mother) for 25 years.
That communication is key. But the real key is ensuring that the communication you send is actually what you meant to be received. Many of us think we communicate but if the message received is not always the one intended then we are not actually communicating.
1. Remember that love IS conditional.


2. What you think you're saying may not be what is heard.


3. LOVE your spouse everyday and let them know it.





Oh, you wanted only one.





Sorry.
1.) Don't try to make the other person into something they're not.


2.) Everyone needs their own time.


3.) Pick your battles- don't sweat the small stuff.
Make sure that you can live with all their little irritating quirks before you walk down the aisle....or ten years later you'll find yourself with a person where even the way they breathe gets on your nerves.
Communicate, communicate, communicate!!!





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there will be highs %26amp; lows, do not get lost in bill paying, raising children, work or school, remember to love each other just like you did in the beginning....:)
Express your self truthfully and be open to listen to your spouse.
Comunication, Honesty, and Respect!
Never criticize your partner.


Don't expect your partner to be a clone of yourself.
Compromise!
communicate with each other.
choose your fights wisely. Don't fret over the stupid stuff.





The man should make all final decisions.
Just because you're right, doesn't mean you win.
Game Over
Don't do it.
Trust.. Wether it is good or bad be honest.





Without Trust you have nothing.
RUN!!!!
when you make a promise or a commitment KEEP IT
always treat your wife like a lady - she is first and foremost in your life