i got married 3 months back,right now i am in UK.problem is dat i am not comfortable with my husband youger brother(2 yrs younger to him).Before marrige i thought he is having his own business (which was written in my husband's bio data its an arrange marriage)and he is settled but now i came to know dat he doesnt do anything.he lives with my father in law and mother in law.he is only graduate..and always ask for money and expensive items from my husband...bcoz of this only i always had a fight with my husband.which sometimes turns into very seroius fight.my husband loves his brother .but i cant tolerate him.i always wanted to have a settled family which i doesnt got.now my husband has started abusing my family also.i am very upset i cannot tell these things to my parents i dint want to make them unhappy..i love my husband.i am an indian therefor marriage is very important and crucial for me..My husband is well educated and earned well..Plz help meMarriage advice....its urgent !!!?
Are you a wife or a slave. I have indian friends and I've heard you guys still have slaves! So which one are you? In america, we dont go for that type of stuff. Here, we would tell you that you don't have to marry anyone you don't want to and you are entitled to your opinion. However,in your situation, i don't know what to say, does your husband beat you? oh heck, just run away to america! lolMarriage advice....its urgent !!!?
i think marriage should not be crucial to anyone
everyone should be free to have a choice
choose their own mate
its up to your inlaws to promote your husband's brother into habits of always giving him money and what not
and if your husband loves you he will believe you
no man should put a hand on his wife and child NO MAN
its just shows his lack of respect for you he is saying that his family comes 1st but you are his family
get marriage counselling
If he is abusive to you and your family it doesn't matter how well educated he is or how much money he makes, you need to let him know you will not accept this behavior and if it does not stop you need to leave him.
be good at being good and dutiful much like the pioneer woman who make a nice home and not complain about stuff
Your husband is using money he earned to help his brother and you should support him in doing what he believes is right. Stop fighting your husband and start supporting him in his decisions. That's my honest opinion.
girl s.h.it that u goin to stay with him b/c hes educated and earn money oh please fine a job and leave his a.s.s dont be a sucker for cut a.ss
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