No one wants a marriage to fail. I see people on here people who are happily married after years and years and others who are happily remarried to someone else.
Think of the children first and then you second and your spouse last. Run all decisions through that but know how all these are linked together. If a decsion is good for the kids and bad for you then that affects how you can help your kids. There is no math here to help but it won't hurt to sit down and write it all out. Plenty of self-help books to help you on what you should do.
Everyone on here has only a tunnel view of the situation and you must check all advice for reality at the door.
Good Luck and God Bless!What advice can you give to someone about to end a seven.five year old marriage?
If you had been married to my brother-in-law, the decision would have been much simpler. :-) Report Abuse
What advice can you give to someone about to end a seven.five year old marriage?
Any anti itch cream should suffice. A bit of winter grass wouldn't go amiss either.
Better to have loved and be lost than to not love at all.
Try and find someone to give you the care and love you deserve. Someone you can love and who loves you back. Someone to take care of you and treat you like a queen. Who will always be your best friend forever and ever. Someone you cannot live without.
keep your head up.
theres something better waiting ahead for you.
Get a lawyer. Don't forget you get half. And don't look back. Good luck.
1) Allow yourself time to morn your loss
2) Don't morn for long!!!!
3) Learn from your mistakes
4) Do not talk about him to your dates
5) Always think postive
6) Make new friends male %26amp; female
7) Don't decline invitations to go out
It'll get better with time. Keep your mind straight and you'll find someone good .
all i can say that i know how you feel and the best thing to do is go out, meet people, try to forget and have fun. You will see that little by little you will end up forgetting and forgiving.
Dear Chicka, my advice would be not to end a seven.five years marriage unless there is a serious reason for that, like a third person that implies new love or you are beaten, locked in a room at the basement of a house, left to starve or any combination of the afore mentioned. Think twice, think thrice before you act. If there is room of communication with your partner sit down and discuss the case thoroughly and find reasons to stay together. In any case the decision is yours .
Good luck!
let him do the talking
Make sure it is the last resort after even therapy. If you have kids MAKE SURE YOU ARE DOING THE RIGHT THING
Have a party! It's about time you get to see what life is like without the ball and chain!!!!
God Bless you!
Enjoy every single day to it's fullest and remember that your spouse was only one part of your life, not your whole life. And now you get the chance to get out and maybe do things you have never before thought of doing in your life.
Age is only a number!
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