Need help or advice on spicing up my marriage!?

my husband and i have a 4 month old....but we are still young parents. 18 and 19. my husband says im no fun anymore, and i want to be..he wants me to do things with him ..his big thing is cars as he is a mechanic in the army. what can i do to be more fun???Need help or advice on spicing up my marriage!?
tell him its a two way street and maybe find something that interests you both .try to spend time with just the two of you hope that helpsNeed help or advice on spicing up my marriage!?
see if there is a car show in town. find a sitter and go for the evening. buy some a sexy nighty and when the baby is in bed, shower, put it on and go to bed yourself........... have fun. he misses you so let him have a whole evening just you two.
You guys are so young that carrying a life of raising kids seems boring! But it`s because you are still so young. Your husband wants to have fun and wants you to be the fun young girl you used to be, but now with your baby, you have bigger and more important things to do! You can still be fun and have babies, for sure...but what seems fun for 30 year olds, isn`t for teenagers like you guys.


Whether you decided to get married this young or because you had a baby...the important thing here is taking care of your child before wanting the fun. Your husband telling you that you`re just not fun anymore is very immature, typical of a guy his age. He needs to grow up and mature fast unlike other single 19 year olds who`re partying, still in college, enjoying life! His life and yours for that matter, have changed dramatically and you just have to grow up, get it together and realize that your life is a different life now, it is a grown up life and so that`s how you should carry it. There are fun things you can still do, but ask him to be specific, is it fun going out like partying, or fun while being intimate...because whatever it is, it`s not fun because you`re taking of a third person too, not only him! He needs to realize that before he can tell you that you`re no fun!


Ah! Kids!
I think he misses you. he's probably conflicted... on one hand he has to be a mature adult/parent... but then again you guys are soo young.I know how that feels. im 19 and my husband is 21. we have a three year old and a three month old.try finding some time for just the two of you. that should really help. good luck.