I need advice on my new marriage.?

I recently married a wonderful sexy intelligent man. I love him with all my heart but sometimes I don't treat him like I do. I divorced my childrens father who treated me badly but I bent over backwards to be everything that I could for him. Why don't I treat my new husband like he deserves? He deserves everything and I can't give it to him.I need advice on my new marriage.?
unfortunately i think u still have fears from ur last marriage and are afraid to committ the same mistakes. You married a new man, new life, put ur fears and your previous marriage where they belond..........in the PAST! Love is giving u a new opportunity to love and be loved take advantage of it.I need advice on my new marriage.?
It is usually said that until you dont work out your previous feelings you should not go into new relationships because the tendency to carry the past pain on to the new is common. Now that you are now in a new relationship, it is common for you to see the new with old thinking patterns.


Tell yourself, this is a new situation, a new person, with different time. What every happened to was in the past, it is important for you to remove the old lenses and wear new colored lenses as everything is new, why look at new experiences with past pain? This is your present, treat your present in a precious way, so your new past becomes a happy memory, when you treat your new present with full committment your future is born out of the beautiful present so believe me future also will be beautiful.


This is something you are going to creat for yourself. This husband of yours must love you a lot to ask your hand to join his journey of life, decide if you want o make his life bad or be part of his happiness. Take small steps to your own happiness, small changes will surely help you, take to your husand and get his help, find out your triggers and get his help to cross this bridge so you can reach his valley of love.
Well stop it, treat him how you would like to be treated.


I always advise couples to read a book called ';Men are from Mar's and women are from Venus'; , it is a powerful book by John Grey, it explains the differences on how men and women think. It is very important to know that women and men think totally different.


Good luck.


P.S. If you have a good man do your best to keep him around , cuz good men are hard to come by these days. And if he leaves you cuz of your attitude, you will regret it.
You're suffering from A.W.P.S. (American Woman Princess Syndrome) Most American women suffer from this. It's normal and it's usually the fault of a woman's father referring to her as ';princess'; from the time the young girl was 3 years old to 16 years old. American women tend to feel a strong sense of entitlement after hearing their fathers say repeatedly, ';Yes princess!'; ';Anything you want princess!'; It's for this reason that many American women will pout and often act like children when they don't get their way or feel that they have been slighted. It's for these reasons that there are 2.5 million+ women in the states enjoying a happier, carefree existence using Prozac or some other anti-depressant/anxiety medication. Together with diet and exercise you should start feeling normal in no time at all.


Best of luck to you!





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maybe the way ur ex treated you badly took a toll on the way you can show your love. regardless of how u show it, ur new husband seems to love you for the way you are, enough to marry you. when ur ex treated u bad, i bet u wanted to treat him bad back too, but u couldn't or didn't. so now that you have a good guy, ur kinda new to it or, kinda take it out on him? don't wori, if it really bothers you to the point you may lose ur new guy, try to talk to a friend or maybe even ur husband, so he'll understand why u act that way. once u get it all out, u may just return to ur loving potential. good luck. love urself. hope things work out.
you need to know that your new hubby is not your ex hubby, so that means you need to let him love you and treat him the way he needs to be treated, stop thinking that he is like your ex, he is not, try not to compare him to your ex, and let him show you how much he really loves you, and how a good man can treat his woman.GL!
You may have some old baggage from the previous marriage you are carrying around. It translates into intimacy issues. Try some counseling so you can get past this before it goes on for much longer. You love your husband, he deserves to be treated as well as he treats you.
Its because you have endoured abuse, and perhaps have become an abuser. It happens all the time, you just need to find your demons in therapy, or talking to even a close friend. You CAN give it to him, try expaining to your dearest love why you do what you do and to please be patient. You dont want him to leave you for the same reason's your left your ex.
Better not to spoil the new husband. Don't feel bad, I know it's hard not to spoil the ones you love, but if he doesn't need it don't do it. He loves you for who you are not what you can do for him.
Okay, so you know that you don't treat him 'like you want to' . . . then start now.