Sometimes we get insecure when we are pregnant. We start to feel unattractive, and insecure. It is quite normal. You love him and I am sure he loves u too. He probably sees u as more beautiful than ever. Remember u are carrying his twins and are about to start a whole new part of your life together. It is a very exciting time for both of u, men just don't show it as easily as women alot of times. Don't allow yourself to live in insecurity, that is a sad way to live. If it makes u feel better sit and have a talk to him. Just let him know u are feeling insecure right now, and if he loves u (which I am sure he does) he will make u feel loved and wanted again. He probably doesn't know u are going through this. Once he tells u though........believe his words and don't bring it up over and over, that is just frustrating to a guy. Congrats on your twins and all the best for the future.Please help me on my marriage! i need some advice please.?
I had this same feeling when I was pregnant, I was just a fear of being left with a child to raise. What you need to do it sit down and talk to your husband about your feelings. Does he give you any signs that he is not happy?Did he want kids? If you are really concerned then you need to get your self right so that if he does leave then you can go on with your life and take care of your babies they are the main thing. I know it would be hard but you have to do what you have to do. I hope the talk works for you it did for me. Good luck
You are young and getting ready to experience the birth of your twins. Having a child can put a stress on any relationship, having twins I'm sure makes the stress even more intense. Believe in your husband and his love for you and your unborn children. If he hasn't given you a reason to doubt his love and you haven't done anything to violate your relationship with him you have nothing to worry about. Find some help from friends and family to help you though the first month or so after the babies are born, it is a big adjustment period for everyone. GOOD LUCK
Has he done or said anything to make you feel this way?
Many pregnant women have trouble with their emotions and even teasing can cause them to think the worst when really your husband was just playing with you.
Most men think their wives are at their most beautiful while they are pregnant, but the don't realize that a woman's emotions and hormones are way out of balance and that is probably all that's wrong with you
I suggest you sit down with your husband and tell him how you are feeling so that he can be careful of what he say's, and find ways to reassure you
i guess your husband knows your condition.is he ok with it.if your husband is ok with the way things are,and your a good faithful wife you have no worries.if the fact that your having twins has you scared.your mother insinct will get you through,just don,t stop the attention given to husband.even if you have to changethe way you would give it
merry christmas congrats
men leave because they have insecurities as a man if you love and support your husband and help him to be the best dad he can be, then you have done all you can do but you cant stop a man from leaving if he really wants to i pray all goes well for you and your new family be strong and think positive, because if you let this if he leave me thing take over your being they you can drive him away without knowing that you are doing so
Sounds like your hormones are controlling your wild imagination and this is normal actions. Welcome to the wonderful world of pregnancies. Congras on twins, good luck and Happy Holidays. Also dont worry so much as millions have gone thru this before you and many more will suffer thru this afterwards
Your hormones are going crazy reason being that you are pregnant, have you talked to your husband about your fears, has he given you any reason for feeling like that. Maybe talk to your doctor about it too. Us girls do and feel some funny things when we are pregnant
If he is as wonderful as you say, then let him be wonderful, tell him, trust him, allow him to be shocked if it is a shock, but wonderful guys can amaze you if you let them. Relax it will be better for the baby anyway.
Stay calm you don't want to stress the twins
As long as you keep having some type of sexual relations
with him he won't leave or cheat they enjoy other things not just intercourse,
Congrats on the twins.
Your probably just feeling overwhelmed with the responsibility, try not to worry unduly. Talk to your husband and explain your fears you might find that he is feeling some what scared also.
Unless you have a reason to worry, don't. You're body is going through some serious hormone changes so you might just be creating something out of nothing.
Has he show an apprehension, or acted like he wants to leave??? If not, your just psyhcing yourself out, if not, spend more time together and try not to act demanding
if he loves u the way u love him, then theres no reason why u shuold be worried. hes not going to leave u cuz he married u! duh he loves yuh girl! lol. nothings going to happen. dont worry. ur gonna make a family. =]
you should talk to him, if he does not want the relationship he should be man enough to tell you this.
if he loves you that much tell him and let him find out how much he loves you
stop sterssin girl! u will be ok it maybe ur hormones
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