Saturday, December 19, 2009

Would you take marriage advice from a 16 year old?

Before you say....NO!!! Think about it, just curious to see the answers! Thanks to everyone who contributes? :)





P.S. Not meaning taking advice from me....Absolutely NOT!!!Would you take marriage advice from a 16 year old?
...no, he doesn't have the experiences and responsibilities as an adult, a job and pay his own bills...Would you take marriage advice from a 16 year old?
if they were telling me what broke up their parent's marriage, then yes. while i did not understand much about love and maintaining a GOOD marriage when I was 16, I could have easily given someone advice on what NOT to do in a marriage because i witnessed first hand the events that caused my parents relationship to crumble.
I'll listen to anybody's advice.





Then I'll make my own decision. If it sounds like good advice, I'll take that into consideration.





For instance I would consider advice from a 16-year-old in this hypothetical circumstance:


';Hi, I am wondering if I should get a divorce like lots of other people on here. (... some details ...) I have a 16-year-old child I am considering staying for. Keeping in mind that my own child might feel completely differently, I would like some perspective from teenagers who have lived with parents going through a rocky marriage.';
i think people do all the time on YA! lol





if it was a blind study, and you wouldn't know, i bet a bunch of people unknowingly would....which is suffice to say that non-married young people can possess very accurate perceptions of marriage at society at large around them
Funny thing is sometimes younger people can see things adults can't. Same asa adults understand younger issues they can't get. If it is some mature 16 year old and they sound like they know what they are talking about, maybe. They could have a parent going through the same thing.... Different points of view are good to consider.





But at the same time keep in mind, it's a 16 yr old.
I would only take advice from someone who was in a successful, long term marriage.
If it was good advice why the hell not? sometimes a fresh perspective isn't such a bad thing. I have heard 5 year olds say profound things before.
Okay -- I thought about it.





No. I would not take marriage advice from a 16 year old.





And I don't take parenting advice from people who don't have children.
NO!!! I only take marriage advice from long time happily married couples.
Would you take medical advice from your mechanic?
That depends on how long has she has been married?
No. I don't take marriage advice from people who have never been maried.
No, what experience could they really have in this area?? None.....
ha!





no way!
think about how much you knew about the opposite sex and relationships when you were 16
it depends on whats the question ?
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